倒是很爱[When Harry Met Sally].那些看片子时脑中想起一两个朋友的人是幸运的.他们也许不该只是称为朋友了,可我还是想不出一个词(知己也好闺蜜也好),来表达这种关系.
煲着电话粥一起整理房间 看电视 写作业 上网,可以久久不说话,却让原本空荡的房间多了生气而不再独自一人;深夜辗转难眠时总是能打给对方而完全不担心会惊扰ta,因为你们都是这么想的;在公共场合互相发出古怪的声音 大笑 或者做尽怪事囧事,目中无人因为眼中只有对方同样的笑脸;争吵和赌气,为了一个称呼 破信号 对与错 以及谁该先挂电话;你也许不知道ta现在新喜欢什么不喜欢什么,但你肯定知道ta曾经很爱蝴蝶 星巴克 吃肉 白色,喜欢的异性的类型,以及ta漂亮或者一般般或者"趴趴"的字迹,并且至今你相信ta还是这样;你在社交网站上的异常状态会被ta捕捉到,几小时内准会意外却又意料之内地收到ta的问候,或者,你们许久不互相关注这些乱哄哄的东西,却在几周一次的电话里一口气说完像是一辈子都说不完的话题.还有影片中的一次争吵后,-R U finished now? -Yes. -Can I say sth.? -Yes. 然后同时(Hug)Sorry.
我喜欢这个结局.
你,还有你.听着亲爱的,我想让我们这辈子都这样在一起.就是这么简单,一种爱,无关性别,无关称谓=)
p.s.看的时候一直担心着下个镜头他们会抱在一起然后接吻.就像Harry说的,the sex part is already out there so the relationship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story.不好不好.
p.s.p.s.所以不喜欢[溏心风暴]的结尾,常在心和得得地在一起.She would have got a lifetime true friend, otherwise 同上.不好不好.
Harry: You realize of course that we could never be friends. What I'm saying is and this is not a come on in any way, shape or form, is that men and women can never be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally: That is not true, I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No you don't
Sally: Yes I do
Harry: No you don't
Sally: Yes I do
Harry: You only think you do
Sally: Your saying I'm sex with these men without my knowledge.
Harry: What I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not
Harry: Do too
Sally: They do not
Sally: How do you know
Harry:Because,no man be friends with a woman he finds attractive, he always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So your saying a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them too.
Sally: What if they don't want to have sex with you?
Harry: Doesn't matter, because the sex part is already out there so the relationship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story.
Harry: Would you like to have dinner?... Just friends.
Sally: I thought you didn't believe men and women could be friends.
Harry: When did I say that?
Sally: On the ride to New York.
Harry: No, no, no, I never said that... Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are involved with other people, then they can... This is an amendment to the earlier rule. If the two people are in relationships, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted... That doesn't work either, because what happens then is, the person you're involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you're just friends with. Like it means something is missing from the relationship and why do you have to go outside to get it? And when you say "No, no, no it's not true, nothing is missing from the relationship," the person you're involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to the person you're just friends with, which you probably are. I mean, come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it. Which brings us back to the earlier rule before the amendment, which is men and women can't be friends.
